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Author: Godson

YOU VS YOU

You Vs Many people believe that there is a force holding and restricting them from achieving things. But this is a wrong perception to have because if anything is stopping you from achieving your dreams, that thing is YOU!

If life throws you a curveball, you either find something or someone to blame or find out what you could have done differently. If you wait for someone to give you guarantees, you might never get it.

But you can give yourself guarantees, work towards them, and make them happen because you have only yourself to count on!

WINNERS DON’T MAKE EXCUSES

When you fail, the first step is getting over yourself. Understand that it’s not about you; find out why you failed and work on them. And if there is a task that you must execute, do not focus on the parts that you can do.

You should aim for those that you cannot do because the curiosity to learn how to get something done makes you realize that you can do some things that you never thought you would be able to do.

Also, if you must give up or leave the scene, make sure it is on your terms. Never let circumstances determine your decisions.

PLANNING AND CHANGE

Time and change are the two powers that every human being has to deal with daily, and nobody has control over either of them. They are also the two components that are most difficult to manage.

The summary of your life is expressed in how you used time and change. Anything you become is a result of how you used your time and managed the changes that came along in your life.

You exist to fulfill a destiny, and you must do that within a specific period. Whether you fulfill that purpose or not depends on how well you use your time because you do not have forever to fulfill your purpose.

STOP WISHING – START DOING

Everyone has got wishes, but the way through it is to figure out the next right move. When challenges hit, the way to get through the challenge is to ask yourself, “What is the next right move?” You should not be dwelling on the challenge and wish it did not happen.

Figuring out the next right move is crucial to progress as it positions you on part to success.

Folks, your life is not defined by that one challenging moment. The only thing failure should do; is to point you in a different direction of doing things.

I will advise you to stop focusing on what you don’t have instead, focus on what you have and be grateful for them. Then, keep doing and stop wishing.

STEPPING UP

To change your life, change your behavior, achieve your goals, and make your dream a reality, you must step up. Many people go through life without discovering what their talents are and what they are capable of.

When you see a successful person, and you go on admiring them, always have this in mind that the success they are enjoying is the product of the work they have put in.

People are rewarded publicly for the work they have done privately. Next time you start pondering why you can’t afford the good things of life, you have to sit up, cast away your doubts, and start working.

OVERCOMING REJECTION

Rejection is the sense of being unwanted. You believe people do not love you because you do not feel their love. You have been abandoned by your father, mother, siblings, husband, wife, boss, friend, or business partner.

You have experienced betrayal from one or more persons closest to you, and you seem to be unable to get over it. The pain of rejection cannot be avoided, but you can choose not to allow that pain to ruin the rest of your life.

Do not park at the point of your pain because Jesus was rejected too. In the face of rejection, focus on achieving your purpose, and just maybe, at the end of the day, you will be better for it.

HOW A LEADERS THINK’S

A person’s way of thinking is their philosophy that either makes or destroys the people they are leading. And if you do not change your mind and manner of thinking, you will never become a leader.

Your attitude determines your limitation and how far you go is hinged on your belief system. A leader cannot lead beyond their belief system and attitude.

A person’s attitude is their way of manifesting their philosophy, and philosophy is the product of personal ideas. As a leader, the first thing you should have in your mind is that everyone is a leader, and by so doing, leading becomes easier and better done.

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CHANGE

Change is constant, and for growth to take place, change is necessary. The eagle, for instance, is one of the birds with the longest lifespan. An eagle can live for 70 years, but once it clicks 40, it becomes hard for the eagle to fly or hunt food because it’s feathers would have become heavy, and its sharp, long beak becomes blunt.

To prevent dying a slow death, the eagle undergoes a 150-day change by going to a mountain top and knocking off its beak and waiting for several days for a new one to grow. It also pulls out the heavy feathers until it can fly again.

This process is painful but worth it. And many of us, as humans, also need to go through a painful process of change to achieve our desired goals in life.

GOING THROUGH TOUGH TIMES

During tough times, staying resolute and not giving up are the most important things to do. Tough people will always outlast tough times.

And when you fall, what matters most is your victory. Giving up is human nature because of the fear of falling and not succeeding, but when you do that, you never find out if you would have succeeded.

It is a lot better to try and fail than not try at all. To forge ahead, figure out what exactly is causing your failure and deal with it. Is it fear, procrastination, a relationship, self-doubt, or laziness? Figure it out and get rid of it!

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DO THE DIFFICULT THINGS

Anybody can do anything that they feel like doing. Whether it is visiting the gym or giving 100 percent at work. But truly successful people are successful because they do the hard stuff that most people wouldn’t do

Most times, those things that you do not feel like doing are the things that you need to get done to pave your way to success. That is why you need to be disciplined and diligent at what is required to attain success.

We must cultivate the habit of doing things without being told, without supervision, doing hard stuff, and yet getting them done. That is the kind of work that matters and few habits you need to achieve success.

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