Life is not easy, and you will not have it easy all the time. Life can hit hard at any time, getting fired, losing a loved one, having a failed relationship.
Asking why when any of these happened can damage you. You have to understand that life is not fair, and you have to absorb failure so you can take in success.
Sometimes, things need to fall apart so that better things can fall into place, and the most uncomfortable paths lead to the most beautiful places.
So, embrace the bad days, bad experiences, and failure so you can be strong enough to take on the work that will bring you success. Don’t ask me why life isn’t not fair, just get use to it